learning to play the game all over again

When one gets into a relationship there seems to be an overwhelming list of consequences that will shortly follow.

There are always sharp edges that need smoothing which usually requires sand paper which is indeed unpleasant.

No one can actually provide one with clues of how to achieve domestic happiness and how to manage all those changes that are taking place without anyone's ego getting hurt.

So how is it possible? you learn it once in one relationship and then you have to do it all over again in another. Nothing is ever constant. It is all everchanging including yourself.

But surely if love shows the way. The instinct of the individual in love should always guide them in the right direction.

There is no straight answers, no clues, solutions. At best it seems to be all calculated guessworks.

I love. I adore. I get it all wrong. I misunderstand. I am learning it all over again and I am not at the top of my class..